This week's readings included excerpts from “Teaching Multilingual Children” by Virginia Collier and “Aria” by Richard Rodriguez. The most important message that I took from both of these excerpts was the importance of recognizing and honoring the cultural identity of students. In Teaching Multilingual Children, Collier uses 7 guidelines to discuss how important a child’s native language and culture is for teaching and learning English as a second language. In the excerpt “Aria”, Rodriguez writes about the difficulties of assimilating into a new culture and learning a new language, as well as the sadness and loss that came from leaving behind his native culture to fit into a new one.
What’s in a name? Few things are more important and thought-provoking than choosing a name for your child. It is one of the most identifying pieces of information that your child will carry for the rest of their lives. In many cultures, names are chosen and combined to represent the melding of two families. Before the birth of my first child, I spent months searching/ discussing/debating with my husband over the name of our first daughter. Do we choose a family name? Something to honor our culture? A meaningful name from my childhood? A name that brings me joy? So many thoughts and ideas to consider, undoubtedly a huge task. Finally, you settle on the perfect name for your beloved child, a name that means a great deal to your family, one that both you and your child are proud of, and you move to a new country. With heartbreaking sadness and frustration, the name that you’ve chosen with such care, is now mispronounced, shortened, and unrecognizable. Worse, your child wants to fit in so badly, and/ or doesn’t have the English language skills to correct the mistake, that they allow others to “Americanize” their name. Talk about losing a piece of your cultural identity! This happens every day in the school I work in.
Although the readings for this week focused more on learning English as a second language, they kept bringing me back to the importance of saying our newcomer’s names correctly. I think about how good I feel when someone I’ve just met remembers my name at the end of our conversation. I feel seen, heard, accepted, and important. Imagine how amazing these students feel when we make the effort to learn their names, learn to pronounce them correctly, and then use them. In a school that has a high population of newcomers, the least I can do is make it my goal to learn and pronounce all the students’ names correctly.
A worthy watch: Getting it right; why pronouncing names correctly matters | Gerardo Ochoa |
Video: Your name is your crown, so wear it | Toluwanimi Obiwole